You are most likely going to be a ‘good enough’ lover. And that is a good thing.
It is a good thing because none of us are perfect and we don’t need perfection. The demand for perfection will only lead to loneliness.
You cannot have perfection and company. To be in company with another person is to be negotiating imperfection every day.
We are all incompatible, but it is the work of love to make us graciously accommodate to each other’s incompatibilities.
Compatibility is the achievement of love.
-Alain de Botton